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Learning from interviewing

I now understand how men feel when sitting around or near or across from us. I understand a man's point of view, because clearly, "business dress" means that you have to wear a jacket, but you can wear a corset underneath, complete with low-cut, cleavage-revealing lace.

WTH?? I can't HELP but look! No wonder guys stare...chicks are putting it out there for everyone to see. And I HATEHATEHATE when women argue that "they should be able to wear whatever and not deal with comments and looks". If you dress up your turkey for thanksgiving, then expect it to be eaten, girlies. That's the way it is. Exposing yourself almost BEGS other people to look RIGHT THERE rather than at your face or what's on your desk.

LOL. And I'm a *girl*. I realize that the style now is to wear scooped neck and v-cut shirts. And I can't help it that I hold on to a Geisha's belief that revealing less is more, and still wearing turtlenecks in the dead of summer. But when someone talks to ME, they talk to my FACE. Not my breasteses, not my ass, not my cleavage. Usually not even my arms, because they, too, are covered.

Bottom line -- if you don't want someone staring a hole down your shirt, don't wear shirts designed to be stared at.

Just sayin'.

Plus...the freakin' weather is going up to 80 degrees. 80!!!! In DECEMBER.

I'm grabbing a sandwich board with "The End Of The World Is Near" and marching up and down Highway 31 with the Jesus with a cross on wheels.

Somebody's gotta do it...


( 40 whispered — Speak )
Dec. 11th, 2007 07:27 pm (UTC)
Hold on there. Someone interviewing you was wearing a corset under her blazer for the interview?

Were you applying to work at a renn faire?
Dec. 11th, 2007 09:01 pm (UTC)
It honestly looked more like a slip!! lol. It was black and REALLY LOOSE. Her walls were a dark red, and I was all thinking "is this a bordello or what?" Heh.
Dec. 11th, 2007 09:03 pm (UTC)
I have camis I wear under sweaters that I think are too low cut or under blouses to add color. No way would I wear one just by itself under a blazer. That is just not work appropriate.
Dec. 11th, 2007 09:08 pm (UTC)
I wear camis underneath shirts that are too transparent, but I'd NEVER wear what she had on. It honestly looked like a cheap, WalMart slip. No joke. LOL. Plus, it was clear she wasn't wearing a bra. It was ALL OUT THERE BEGGING TO BE LOOKED AT!! And I'm a girl! lol
Dec. 11th, 2007 09:12 pm (UTC)
and I've got a buck that says it probably wasn't worth looking at, by anyone. ;p
Dec. 11th, 2007 09:39 pm (UTC)
Right. It was like watching a really bad car wreck. lol :)
Dec. 11th, 2007 08:55 pm (UTC)
you had a typo there. should have been "sammich" board... :P
Dec. 11th, 2007 09:02 pm (UTC)
I was in a hurry to my NEXT, impromptu interview which required me to...OH NOESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS...DO MATH!!!

Dec. 11th, 2007 09:31 pm (UTC)
ah, yes. math. my old nemesis.

my arch rival.

my bete noir
Dec. 11th, 2007 09:40 pm (UTC)
Ich auh, ich auh, ich auh und ich auh. :P lol
Dec. 11th, 2007 10:10 pm (UTC)
breaking out the german, now, are we?

initially i typed 'breaking out the gremlin'. wouldn't that be an odd thing to read???

so did the interviews go well???
Dec. 11th, 2007 10:29 pm (UTC)
Yep...both did. I still have to take more tests for the second one (they're online and timed. Yay O.o).

Delta has officially selected me to attend their stewarding program. If I wanted, I could immediately go into training, and become an overseas stewardess. I just dunno what to do at this point. blah.
Dec. 11th, 2007 10:09 pm (UTC)
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Don't worry. I'm not a TOTAL freak. :)
Dec. 11th, 2007 10:25 pm (UTC)
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Dec. 11th, 2007 10:56 pm (UTC)
LOL! Well I'm glad I'm the right kind of freak! :)
Dec. 11th, 2007 10:58 pm (UTC)
Feel free to share your freaky details. We're all about some freakishness up in here :) :D
Dec. 11th, 2007 11:37 pm (UTC)
So does this mean you want on my freaky filter? :)
Dec. 11th, 2007 11:45 pm (UTC)
Absolutely, and you're already on mine :)
Dec. 11th, 2007 11:59 pm (UTC)
Done. Careful what you ask for, though. :)
Dec. 12th, 2007 12:24 am (UTC)
Believe me; you could do *nada* to shock, scare or run me off. I'd show you proof, but then I'd have to kill you.
Dec. 12th, 2007 12:39 am (UTC)
Yeah, I'll pass. One of my hard limits is non-repeatable death scenes. :)
Dec. 12th, 2007 01:18 am (UTC)
There is that :)
Dec. 12th, 2007 09:21 am (UTC)
Yeah, it's a good one to have.
Dec. 11th, 2007 10:26 pm (UTC)
Welcome :) You have cool friends :>
Dec. 11th, 2007 10:58 pm (UTC)
Of course I do! I just added you, didn't I? :)
Dec. 11th, 2007 11:26 pm (UTC)
Wellllllllll, I didn't wanna be the one to point it out and all. Hahahah :)
Dec. 11th, 2007 11:38 pm (UTC)
Does your icon say iTard? LOL.
Dec. 11th, 2007 11:46 pm (UTC)
Why yes, it does!! :) lol
Dec. 12th, 2007 03:37 am (UTC)
Agreed, generally. I might respectfully disagree that women need to wear turtlenecks to expect men to look into their eyes. However, showing a lot of cleavage is going to be quite distracting to men or women. As you note, it's quite inappropriate in a professional setting.
Dec. 12th, 2007 10:49 am (UTC)
I never said women had to wear turtlenecks. I was making fun of the fact that *I* do. Seems like a lot of people are getting away with a lot of inappropriate clothing with the advent of "business casual". Whatev.
Dec. 12th, 2007 11:55 am (UTC)
Oh, I understood what you were saying. I inadvertently omitted the smiley. Oops!

I certainly do agree that business casual is often stretched quite a bit. I can't complain too much, being a militantly casual person myself. My idea of business casual is khakis and polo shirts, but I know a lot of my colleagues who prefer dress shirts and dress slacks (i.e., a suit with no tie or jacket). Too formal for me.
Dec. 12th, 2007 01:11 pm (UTC)
Throughout my career, I've /had/ to be dressed up. So when I'm working, I prefer that I am more dressed than dressed down. The whole business casual thing puts me off, and makes me feel less like I'm at work, and more...I should be home :D
Dec. 12th, 2007 07:13 am (UTC)
Hey, if you know what you're doing, even in a turtleneck guys'll stare. :D

*would honk at her sammich board, JUST TO BE IN 80 DEGREE WEATHER*
Dec. 12th, 2007 10:50 am (UTC)
Crazy man. You don't just JUT them out there, goofy.
Dec. 12th, 2007 04:10 pm (UTC)
...I thought that was the whole point of a sammich board? To thrust your message out among the audience? (also? it was 30 last night to your 80.)

Must say, blazer with cami is NOT professional office attire.
Dec. 12th, 2007 04:12 pm (UTC)
We should be in the 30's but OH NO. THE END OF THE WORLD IS NEAR.

I agree with her outfit. Ugh. And what does that say about the company? Ja.
Dec. 12th, 2007 04:13 pm (UTC)
FINE. HAVE SOME COLD. *sends her a box of 30*

That.... they're a buncha hippies? :D "We used to have a break room, but now we raise free-range veggies in there."
Dec. 12th, 2007 04:16 pm (UTC)
She was PART of the vegetation, I think :>
Dec. 12th, 2007 04:17 pm (UTC)
Yay for hippies! Just don't breathe too deeply.

Now I'm thinking, and trying to defend her wardrobe choices. I mean, if she was of a size where supportive undergarments were not a necessity...

But a cheap slip? Naw.
Dec. 12th, 2007 06:46 pm (UTC)
Can't defend someone you didn't see. She wasn't exactly the purtiest thang I've seen...nor the youngest...just sayin'.
( 40 whispered — Speak )


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