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In the *real* world

You tell someone "I don't ever want to speak to you again", and THAT is your boundary. You've drawn a line of zero tolerance towards another person for a good reason. And in the real world, or one without the cowardice of the internet, they'd have no choice but to leave you alone.

We are, however, now protected by laws on the internet regarding harassment. Since I never hear of anyone going through those measures, I'm afraid I'm going to be the groundbreaker to test this law.

I seem to have these freakin' leeches in my life who simply won't -- despite their knowing that I literally cannot stand the sight of them -- continue contacting me via e-mail. While it's true that I could do things to literally tear their playhouses down, I don't. I keep thinking "Oh it'll stop, because they'll get bored and move on."

They never do. And I see these names in my mailbox and feel a little sick. It's like being raped over and over again on the net, someone who not only doesn't understand your boundaries, but more importantly, doesn't give a shit that it's so...hurtful and disruptive.

So I'll say this only one more time -- if I've TOLD you I don't want to hear from you, then stay the hell away from me. This includes e-mail. I'm going to gather up every piece of correspondence and take legal action. While "you" think it's funny that you can pop in my world whenever you want, to me, it's like being pawed all over by a man who has zero respect for women whatsoever.

While I'm sorry your life is so pointless you have to come to *me* for reading entertainment, and you PRETEND to be this jovial happy freakin' creature, you're a disruptive and hostile animal with whom I want no association.

Don't let me see your name in my mailbox. I'll tear your life apart. We all have breaking points, and I've reached mine with you. And don't pretend that I'm "not talking about you" because "you" know who "you" are.

I'd rather have those idiot lurkers (or exes and their butt-fugly girlfriends) trying to traumatize me than YOU.

One more correspondence, or invasion into my world, and I'm taking you down. It won't be pretty, and I'll have company. The more I think about you just up and sending mail when YOU want to contact ME, the sicker it makes me. While I wish to GOD I'd never met you, I can't UNMEET you. But I can damn sure make it to where you won't ever contact me again.

You have a child, too. If you're not worried for yourself, you'd best start worrying about your child.

Go rape someone else's life, because mine has HAD IT with you.

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lefthand_path
Jan. 4th, 2008 09:32 am (UTC)
i know i don't need to offer, b/c you took down a 250 lb dude, but would you like me to help in any way?
none_too_subtle
Jan. 4th, 2008 09:37 am (UTC)
Since you're in closer proximity, I might just call on you. Seriously. You're as mean as I can be :) Heh.
lefthand_path
Jan. 4th, 2008 10:17 am (UTC)
well, you know more ways to get a hold of me than most... don't make me have to break out my "chick from TROY" mouth on 'em. or talk at em to death. no, it's been a while since i've had to make a "stern but kinda not friendly" phone call for someone... maybe i need to brush up on my skills (runs to bathroom with cellphone to look in mirror and practice)
none_too_subtle
Jan. 4th, 2008 11:31 am (UTC)
LOLOLOL re: troy mouth movement chick. WTS was up with that?!?!

You don't NEED practice. All I'd have to do is tell you about this guy (the history) and you'd 100% agree and get all kinds of crazy on they ass. Not only that, but you're smarter and more evil when it comes to verbalizing schtuff. *I* am, too, but this person disgusts me; and the whole point is for him to completely disappear from my life (which he habitually ignores BECAUSE he knows I don't want to hear from him). To me, that's just as invasive as breaking into my home, and makes me SICK.

I'm going to AGAIN block all of his known names. I shouldn't have to do all /that/, but am, since he clearly -- like a five year old -- cannot help himself. Freakin' jerk. *sigh*
ayoub
Jan. 4th, 2008 12:23 pm (UTC)
Leeches... Disgusting... I hope they stop, but until they get a smack upside the head, I doubt it'll happen...
none_too_subtle
Jan. 4th, 2008 12:27 pm (UTC)
I'm afraid you're right. And what *I* do will hurt in a very big way. Hopefully this time, he'll simply shut up and try to carry on with his life. Ugh.
ayoub
Jan. 4th, 2008 12:36 pm (UTC)
I hope so too!
summercamp
Jan. 4th, 2008 01:43 pm (UTC)
Can't you just block them from your email? Or report them to their email service?
none_too_subtle
Jan. 4th, 2008 01:46 pm (UTC)
I've blocked ALL their names from ALL my e-mail. When I go to purge, like a year later, they'll pop BACK UP. Unbelievable.

My next move will be to report them.
jesusrock7
Jan. 4th, 2008 03:18 pm (UTC)
I seem to have these freakin' leeches in my life who simply won't -- despite their knowing that I literally cannot stand the sight of them -- continue contacting me via e-mail.

Wait a sec. Won't...continue? Do you mean they simply won't STOP contacting? (Just wanna make sure I understand what you typed.)

I keep thinking "Oh it'll stop, because they'll get bored and move on." They never do.

Absolutely right. BTDT.

One more correspondence, or invasion into my world, and I'm taking you down.

Here in the US, sure. If they're in another country, we're pretty much SOL "because it's the internet." (I asked the local PD chief about it already in 2k6.) I am so freaking tired of reporting him (ex) to the various sites and being unable to do anything else. Right when I thought he'd finally quit, I got a message via Facebook from [my nickname + FULL last name]. All it said was "merry christmas," but I knew who it really came from. Let's just say that if I wasn't a Christian and didn't care what happened to me, he'd be "six feet under" a looong time ago.
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none_too_subtle
Jan. 4th, 2008 08:09 pm (UTC)
I was JUST thinking about you!! Hadn't heard from you today, so... :)

You're right. And seriously -- this guy makes my skin literally crawl. Ugh.
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