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Your result for The Attachment Style Test...

The Free Agent

18% Anxiety Over Abandonment and 25% Avoidance Of Intimacy

You like to be independent, to play by your own rules. You're not terribly interested in finding a partner and settling down, and it makes you nervous to imagine that someone might depend on you for anything. Were you to find the right partner--someone as independent as you, probably--you'd not be too put out about sharing your adventures with him/her.



Fictional characters with whom you might identify: Han Solo (Star Wars), Beatrice ("Much Ado About Nothing")



HanSolo.jpg Beatrice.jpg




Other Attachment Types:
Secure: The Unicorn | The Cuddleslut | The Free Agent
Preoccupied: The Cling Wrap | The Squid | The Insect
Fearful: The Doormat | The Leper | The Exile
Dismissing: The Hermit | The Stone | The Player
Confused: The Waffler

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Comments

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lefthand_path
Jul. 10th, 2008 09:15 pm (UTC)
remind me to never try and capture you to take you to jabba the hut.
none_too_subtle
Jul. 10th, 2008 09:17 pm (UTC)
That would be a baaaaaaad idea :>
writerwench
Jul. 11th, 2008 04:34 am (UTC)
Odd quiz. I got the same as you - but 15% and 18% respectively. Guess I'm more self-reliant and independent than I thought I was!
none_too_subtle
Jul. 11th, 2008 06:41 am (UTC)
I perceived you to be someone who is self-reliant and independent. It's odd how we see ourselves versus how others do. :>
writerwench
Jul. 11th, 2008 01:15 pm (UTC)
I think a lot of that is social conditioning. My mother, having grown up in a very disturbed household with a hysterical mother and an alcoholic, violent father, has always been a very emotionally contained, independent person, and raised us to be likewise. So I guess a lot of my responses are nurture rather than nature. My own experience of being dependent upon my ex-husband - his response was to freeze and withdraw whenever he could - taught me the hard way the truth of the song from 'Chicago' -
'I am my own Best Friend'!

But I do love being half of a couple as well.
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